Spaz Attack

Thoughts from a big spaz who has lots to spaz about.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

I was hanging out with a fellow momma a couple of weeks ago and she was telling me that her husband wants her to get a nose and boob job. She told me that he even went as far as to look up doctors for her and asked that she get work done as his birthday present this year. At first, I was completely appalled! What kind of crazy husband would actually tell his wife that?!

But then, I started thinking that was cool! Don't get me wrong. I would be PISSED if Jason said I needed to do something to myself to make HIM happy. But, wouldn't it be cool to have a husband who cared so much about how you looked that he would be up for anything that YOU wanted to get done to yourself? Like, I wish Jason cared about how I look, how I dress, etc. He has NEVER commented on my hair, makeup, clothes...ever! He just doesn't care and he's definitely would rather us save money than have me go all out in the looks department.

If a husband cared that much that his wife looks good, doesn't that mean that he is willing to shell out money for her clothes, for diet foods that are delivered, for her hair, her nails, laser for her skin, and more!?

And THAT is the part I thought was so cool!


Blogger Wandering Chopsticks said...

Nooooo! Jason doesn't comment on your appearance b/c he doesn't see you with his eyes, but with his heart. So it doesn't matter what you look like, he loves you. Of course, it helps that you look pretty no matter what you wear or do or don't do.

But that fellow momma's husband isn't being supportive, he's undermining her self-esteem. Plastic surgery is still surgery and unless there's a drastic reason, I think anyone who thinks they need it has far greater issues to resolve.

6:03 PM  
Blogger Christine said...

hmmm...not cool. and trust me, if jason thought you were toe up, he would comment. it's just bc you are beautiful and great in every way that he has nothing to say.

9:50 PM  

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